Fix dependency tree so that lwip doesn't depend on any specific network
interface component.
Network interface drivers shall depend on esp_netif.
esp_netif shall depend on lwip (but not on any specific interface
driver) -- it optionally depends on vfs and esp_eth (need ethernet
header for L2/bridge mode)
This updates the minimal supported version of CMake to 3.16, which in turn enables us to use more CMake features and have a cleaner build system.
This is the version that provides most new features and also the one we use in our latest docker image for CI.
